From December 2005, for the first time, same sex relationships are recognised in law. Along with the rights, come the responsibilities. For any couple wishing to form a civil partnership, congratulations, wonderful news - but make sure you know just what you are letting yourselves in for, and I don't mean the presents and the party.

When you make a civil partnership you get next of kin rights, no inheritance tax liability following your partner's death, pension entitlements and official recognition when registering a partner's death. You also have to be offered the same job perks as married heterosexual couples.

You have to bear in mind, that if you split up your former partner may be entitled to financial support for years to come, you can't just walk away. You will be assessed as a couple for any welfare benefits also. Your relationship can only be dissolved by a court or on death...

If either partner has children then it is really important to understand that registering your relationship may have a massive impact on the kids, or on your responsibility to provide financially in the future.